In reality pedophiles (label label) are a constant danger, and when they touch the child they destroy the good that could had been incurred inside them.
Some symptoms of child sexual abuse:
Changes in behavior such as withdrawal,
crying without provocation.
Recurrent nightmares, disturbed sleep patterns
or fear of the dark.
Returning to more infantile behavior such as
bed-wetting, thumb sucking or excessive
Torn or stained underclothing.
Vaginal or rectal bleeding, pain, itching,
swollen genitals, vaginal discharge or sexually
Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexual
matters, expressing affection in ways
inappropriate for a child of that age.
Fear of a person or an intense dislike at being
left somewhere or with someone.
Other behavioral signals such as aggressive or
disruptive behavior, running away, failing in
school or delinquent behavior
This is NOT the childs desire!
You are not safe around children, you are not good with or to children, and anyone who would allow a pedophile to be alone with their child is JUST as sick as the pedophile.