I feel great knowing that the term "Child Lovers" isn't a good "PC" word for pedophiles any longer, but curious as to what description they will come up with for their lust now.
28-Needless to say, we cannot label ourselves as "Pedophiles", or even the more politically correct "Child Lovers", as they immediately send a red flag to just about every parent, LEO, and Child Advocate in the world. Doing this virtually assures that we will have NO contact with children ever. Therefore, we must decide what is more important in our lives; coming out of the toybox, or living life the way we are hard wired to live it. The realist chooses the later, while the optimist the former. Pessimists do neither; they just sit home, miserable and discontented, feeling sorry for themselves.
Living life the way you were "hard wired to live it".
See... it really doesn't matter how they word it. Pedophiles still stink, still lie, still desire sex with children no matter what label they put on- or endorse.
28-Those of us who have not made the decision to come out of the toybox, or who have not been outed by some other means, may also build a life based on caring for, and being with the little people with whom we wish to share so much. We CAN be benefactors to the children in our lives, as well as the recipients of their love. Although we cannot, in good conscience, fulfill our deepest desires for sexual intimacy, the rest of the pie is ours...if we are able to take it.
"If we are able to take it" Take it take it take it.
From the words of this deviant taking the rest of the pie even in deceit-- is better than no pie at all.
28-Remember, the sum of our abilities is a whole lot greater than each of the individual parts. And while we may not realize social acceptance in our lifetimes, we can take comfort that we will leave the next generation of Child Lovers a foundation and a legacy upon which they can continue to build.
The true legacy so many pedophiles leave are in case folders of sexual abuse victims,
on Police reports and forever etched into the minds of those children they have offended.